On the tail of a great weekend where I was able to finally meet some fellow AFFers in a relaxed group situation, I thought perhaps now would be good time to see if there was some etiquette or rules to "group" engagement. Now, in actuality I probably should have looked for some previous to the event so this will be more of a: I'm going to vent all my awkward moments and then hope that I am not a total loser.
I must admit that I could not have asked for a more wonderful evening...the hosts were gracious and open, the couples and single males were sweet and relaxed but I, being an awkward bumbling pop-tart, did feel unsure at times on how to proceed.
See...I have this thing...this thing where I love pussy and well, if I see a yummy delectable female I have a hard time not hip-checking the male off to the side to sneak a lick or two (or three...). Now I KNOW that this is just not right but I just can't help myself.
And to be honest a true gentleman will come up behind me and take advantage. and THEY did! heehee, yay me!The other thing I struggle with is know HOW to join in when others are playing...do I tap him on the shoulder and say, "Can I just gobble up our cock while you go down on her?" or "Excuse me, is that breast taken? (whilst licking my lips)"
I just found myself at times, walking from room to room, saying "oh, excuse me" or "oops, sorry..." while tiptoeing out...I kinda felt like I was intruding at times.
Also, there is the whole "Do I need the husband/boyfriend's permission to touch and play with their female partner?" And also, will they know they can join me...and that I love when the male gets involved...or females.
I think the bonus for me when there are group-type events is that I am a TRUE bisexual woman and there are few women who actually feel comfortable playing with other women without their partner present. Hell....even with their partner there unless there is a fourth male for them to enjoy. I adore being with women, especially sexual confident women. This event had several (again YAY ME!) as well as gracious and accommodating (and hawt) males (did I mention YAY ME!).
As I attempt to figure out this whole wacky life I am plodding through I still struggle with "high school-esque" awkwardness... but with yummy females and males to put up with me. YAY ME!
